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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

love and relationships......

being in a r/s... does it always mean ur romance will
last forever, the sweetness will last till the end of
time and the lovey-doveys will never die?
or is it just a test of patience, understanding and
love for the other party?
i really wonder... is it always true that the romance and
lovey-doveys will fade away or die down as time goes by?
so what is it that binds the r/s?
trust? love? understanding?
i guess it's natural that lovey-doveys start fading away
the longer you're in the r/s... and it's more on understanding
and loving the person more as u grow as a couple.
it may seem boring and all..... but i guess it's inevitable.
but what about trust?
how much can u trust the one you love? with all your heart?
and in the end ppl say u're vulnerable for have trusted
someone wholeheartedly when u get hurt?
it's jz so hard to trust someone, but when you trust him - it
jz naturally comes. but when you've jz one reason not to believe
him, everything to disbelieve him comes naturally.
that's how easy trust is broken.
so at the end of the day -
what binds the r/s together?
i guess it's trust. w/o trust, it tires you, making you think and
it just dilutes feelings cos there'll be an invisible barrier
in between.
happiness, closeness and love comes after.

~ { 6/27/2007 06:31:00 PM }
phexz lingers thoughts;